A Mother and Child Fled the Congo, Only to Be Cruelly Separated by the US Government

On Nov. 1, 2017, Ms. L. and her 7-year-old daughter, S.S., arrived at a United States port of entry near San Diego and presented themselves to border agents. Ms. L. had fled with her child from their home in the Democratic Republic of Congo, where Ms. L. left in fear for her life. Now, the pair was finally in the United States, seeking asylum in a country where they thought they would be safe.

Approximately four days later, Ms. L.’s young daughter was taken from her without any explanation or justification. When the officers separated them, Ms. L. could hear her daughter in the next room screaming that she did not want to be taken away from her mother. No one explained why her daughter was being taken away, where she was being taken, or when she would see her child again. More than 3 1/2 months later, Ms. L. remains at a detention center in the San Diego area, while her daughter is detained in Chicago, halfway across the country, without her mother or anyone else she knows.

Today the ACLU filed suit on behalf of Ms. L. and her daughter S.S. to secure their immediate release, or at least reunite them in a family detention center. Our suit argues that the separation of Ms. L. and her daughter is in blatant violation of the due process protections of the Fifth Amendment since the two were separated without justification or even a hearing.

In the time that they have been separated, Ms. L. has only been able to speak to her child a handful of times — always by phone, not video. In those calls, the young girl cries. She’s scared because she doesn’t know what will happen to her and her mother. Ms. L. tries to stay strong for her daughter, but, in reality, the stress and uncertainty of the situation have taken a huge toll on her as well. She struggles to eat and sleep, and she suffers from depression.

The government has no legitimate interest in separating Ms. L. from her daughter since there’s been no evidence, or even accusation, of abuse or neglect. Instead, there is overwhelming medical evidence that the separation of a young child from her parent will have a devastating, and possibly permanent, negative impact on the child’s well-being.

The American Academy of Pediatrics recently denounced the Trump administration’s practice of separating immigrant children from their parents, noting that: “The psychological distress, anxiety, and depression associated with separation from a parent would follow the children well after the immediate period of separation — even after the eventual reunification with a parent or other family.” Every day that this girl is separated from her mother causes her greater psychological harm, all of which can lead to permanent emotional trauma.

Because Ms. L. passed the initial asylum screening, which established that she had a “credible fear” of returning to the Congo, she and her child are eligible for release. But, even if there were some legitimate reason that the two couldn’t be released, Ms. L. and her daughter could be reunited in a family detention center. Instead, in flagrant disregard of the Constitution and common sense, the government has separated a young child from her mother.

It is a disgrace that a mother and child fleeing for their lives should be subjected to the trauma of separation by the very government from which they seek asylum. This cruelty must not go on any longer. Ms. L. and her daughter should be reunited at once. The Constitution and basic human decency demand it. 

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Dr. Timothy Leary

I get it now, the moment someone mentions Trump you people start foaming at the mouth.

Tom Winchester

Were you ever taken from your parents? I raised a child with RAD......horrifying!!


Which part of 'violate the constitution' did you not understand? This is clearly cruel and unusual punishment, for...well, I don't really know what they are being punished for.

Hope Anderson

I agree, they are much better off being separated in America because the Congo is one of the leading centers of F.M.G. in the world.

Hope Anderson

Correction, I ment F.G.M. not F.M.G.


Searched and searched. Can't find that phrase "better off" anywhere in the constitution or the U.S.C. Huh.

Cherry Champagne

Dear Dr. Leary,

Thank you, no. I'd rather not think of it that way. Separating a mother and child is not acceptable no matter how much better off YOU perceive them to be. Did you ask them how they felt about it? Our country has an obligation to do more than just help asylum seekers be "better off" than they were in another country. This administration has no justification for this separation and I plan to help the ACLU fight back against this violation of everything America stands for.

John Paul

How barbaric! and YOU Dr Leary? Doctor?? Most doctors have a heart, i see no evidence of that in your comment, you sound like a piece of crap that should be deported, we dont need people like you in a civilized society.


Mr. Leary, you of all people know the importance of a safe place where your mind can grow accordingly. Perhaps they came to the wrong place. They may be in more danger there, but at least with like minds that offer appropriate remediation.

Sherry Bellamy

Your comment Dr. Leary is both callous and racist. You should be ashamed.


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