A Mother and Child Fled the Congo, Only to Be Cruelly Separated by the US Government

On Nov. 1, 2017, Ms. L. and her 7-year-old daughter, S.S., arrived at a United States port of entry near San Diego and presented themselves to border agents. Ms. L. had fled with her child from their home in the Democratic Republic of Congo, where Ms. L. left in fear for her life. Now, the pair was finally in the United States, seeking asylum in a country where they thought they would be safe.

Approximately four days later, Ms. L.’s young daughter was taken from her without any explanation or justification. When the officers separated them, Ms. L. could hear her daughter in the next room screaming that she did not want to be taken away from her mother. No one explained why her daughter was being taken away, where she was being taken, or when she would see her child again. More than 3 1/2 months later, Ms. L. remains at a detention center in the San Diego area, while her daughter is detained in Chicago, halfway across the country, without her mother or anyone else she knows.

Today the ACLU filed suit on behalf of Ms. L. and her daughter S.S. to secure their immediate release, or at least reunite them in a family detention center. Our suit argues that the separation of Ms. L. and her daughter is in blatant violation of the due process protections of the Fifth Amendment since the two were separated without justification or even a hearing.

In the time that they have been separated, Ms. L. has only been able to speak to her child a handful of times — always by phone, not video. In those calls, the young girl cries. She’s scared because she doesn’t know what will happen to her and her mother. Ms. L. tries to stay strong for her daughter, but, in reality, the stress and uncertainty of the situation have taken a huge toll on her as well. She struggles to eat and sleep, and she suffers from depression.

The government has no legitimate interest in separating Ms. L. from her daughter since there’s been no evidence, or even accusation, of abuse or neglect. Instead, there is overwhelming medical evidence that the separation of a young child from her parent will have a devastating, and possibly permanent, negative impact on the child’s well-being.

The American Academy of Pediatrics recently denounced the Trump administration’s practice of separating immigrant children from their parents, noting that: “The psychological distress, anxiety, and depression associated with separation from a parent would follow the children well after the immediate period of separation — even after the eventual reunification with a parent or other family.” Every day that this girl is separated from her mother causes her greater psychological harm, all of which can lead to permanent emotional trauma.

Because Ms. L. passed the initial asylum screening, which established that she had a “credible fear” of returning to the Congo, she and her child are eligible for release. But, even if there were some legitimate reason that the two couldn’t be released, Ms. L. and her daughter could be reunited in a family detention center. Instead, in flagrant disregard of the Constitution and common sense, the government has separated a young child from her mother.

It is a disgrace that a mother and child fleeing for their lives should be subjected to the trauma of separation by the very government from which they seek asylum. This cruelty must not go on any longer. Ms. L. and her daughter should be reunited at once. The Constitution and basic human decency demand it. 

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Ruth O’Hearn

Think of it this way, instead., Dr. We can and must do better. We are human beings with the ability to preserve this family unit, with no potential harm to our country. Our credo, as doctors and nurses, is to do no harm. They are better off here is your best? Shame on you.


WOW.. let's ask her mother if she wishes she had come here now. I'm betting the answer is NO. This poor baby is being abused so she can be a PAWN for our government. WTF. DEFUND ICE


The real “Dr. Timothy Leary” died years ago. This is a troll, folks. And a cruel one too.


Dear ACLU,
If my comment as an ACLU member must be reviewed, and you take multiple hateful comments from a fake “Dr. Timothy Leary,” then your review system needs work.


What a lame ass justification for America's abominable behavior. Yes, it's better than being dead, but at what point did "not worse than the worse "shit"uation" you can think of become the measure of what is appropriate US behavior. You people disgust me.


This is the excuse people used to make for slavery - black people are better off being tortured in our superior white civilization than living elsewhere. According to your rationale, we could do any terrible thing we want to this woman and her child as long as it's not as bad as what they were fleeing in the D.R. Congo. What an immoral unethical idea.

I hope you are not a medical doctor. It would be terrible for any human being to be in a position where you might be able to harm them.


Sugar coated shit is still shit.

Dr. Timothy Leary

Do you see this A.C.L.U.? The value of my comments here is in the volume of replies they receive. Without my comments all these respondents would be passively sitting by twiddling their thumbs. I stimulate them to action and stating their perspectives.


What a pompous ass reply. If that were you and your child it would be different!!! This is a FUCKING OUTRAGE!!!!!!! FUCK TRUMP!!! ELOQUENT MY ASS.!!!! HE IS A TOTAL MORON DIMWIT USER CON ARTIST WHO HAS A CRAVING FOR PORN SLUTS!!!


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