This Memorial Day – In Honor of Brian and Dave

Following the adoption of an amendment in the Senate Armed Services Committee to repeal “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” on Thursday, committee Chairman Sen. Carl Levin (D-Mich.) said that the policy should be ended because it is a disservice to all the gay service members who are buried in our military cemeteries from every war this country has ever fought. In honor of Memorial Day, the ACLU presents a love letter from one World War II veteran to another on the occasion of an anniversary they shared.  The letter comes from the ONE National Gay & Lesbian Archives and was published as part of the Servicemembers Legal Defense Network’s Stories from the Frontlines series. The letter first appeared in ONE Magazine in September of 1961.

Dear Dave,

This is in memory of an anniversary - the anniversary of October 27th, 1943, when I first heard you singing in North Africa. That song brings memories of the happiest times I've ever known. Memories of a GI show troop - curtains made from barrage balloons - spotlights made from cocoa cans - rehearsals that ran late into the evenings - and a handsome boy with a wonderful tenor voice. Opening night at a theatre in Canastel - perhaps a bit too much muscatel, and someone who understood. Exciting days playing in the beautiful and stately Municipal Opera House in Oran - a misunderstanding - an understanding in the wings just before opening chorus.

Drinks at "Coq d'or" - dinner at the "Auberge" - a ring and promise given. The show 1st Armoured - muscatel, scotch, wine - someone who had to be carried from the truck and put to bed in his tent. A night of pouring rain and two very soaked GIs beneath a solitary tree on an African plain. A borrowed French convertible - a warm sulphur spring, the cool Mediterranean, and a picnic of "rations" and hot cokes. Two lieutenants who were smart enough to know the score, but not smart enough to realize that we wanted to be alone. A screwball piano player - competition - miserable days and lonely nights. The cold, windy night we crawled through the window of a GI theatre and fell asleep on a cot backstage, locked in each other's arms - the shock when we awoke and realized that miraculously we hadn't been discovered. A fast drive to a cliff above the sea - pictures taken, and a stop amid the purple grapes and cool leaves of a vineyard.

The happiness when told we were going home - and the misery when we learned that we would not be going together. Fond goodbyes on a secluded beach beneath the star-studded velvet of an African night, and the tears that would not be stopped as I stood atop the sea-wall and watched your convoy disappear over the horizon.

We vowed we'd be together again "back home," but fate knew better - you never got there. And so, Dave, I hope that where ever you are these memories are as precious to you as they are to me.

Goodnight, sleep well my love.

Brian Keith


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The YMCA located in Carbondale Pa.censured my art work (a painting of Lawrence Taylor) They said he was a convicted rapist and the refused to display my painting. He was never convicted only charged. I feel they should be told about it.Especially Steve Durkin,who I hold personally responsible. The paintings were part of a community Art Walk.

Paul in Louisville

Taylor is also a well-known gay hater. Why you would want to honor such a man is beyond me.

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