My Pharmacist Humiliated Me When He Refused to Fill My Hormone Prescription

(Update 7/20/2018: Hilde appreciates that CVS took her experience seriously. She spoke with a CVS representative who offered a sincere apology on behalf the company and said that the pharmacist who mistreated Hilde acted outside of the company’s guidelines. Hilde hopes that CVS will make its nondiscrimination policies public, so that transgender and non-binary customers have some assurance the corporation will take appropriate action if similar discrimination occurs in the future.)

On a recent day in April, I left my doctor’s office elated. I was carrying my first prescriptions for hormone therapy. I was finally going to start seeing my body reflect my gender identity and the woman I’ve always known myself to be.

I went straight from my doctor to the CVS in my town, Fountain Hills, Arizona, which is a suburb of Phoenix. I handed over the three prescriptions that my doctor, who specializes in hormone therapy, had just given me.

That’s when my day took a turn. After years of working to affirm my identity in a world where transgender people are questioned constantly about how well they know themselves, the pharmacist refused to fill one of the prescriptions needed to affirm my identity.

He did not give me a clear reason for the refusal. He just kept asking, loudly and in front of other CVS staff and customers, why I was given the prescriptions.

Embarrassed and distressed, I nearly started crying in the middle of the store. I didn’t want to answer why I had been prescribed this hormone therapy combination by my doctor. I felt like the pharmacist was trying to out me as transgender in front of strangers. I just froze and worked on holding back the tears.

When I asked for my doctor’s prescription note, the pharmacist refused to give it back, so I was not even able to take it to another pharmacy to have my prescription filled. I left the store feeling mortified.

When I got home, I called my doctor’s office to explain what happened. The office staff tried to intervene by calling the pharmacist, but he still refused to fill my prescription without explicitly explaining why. My doctor ended up having to call the prescription into the local Walgreens, where the medication was filled without question. I transferred all of my prescriptions there so that I never again have to see the pharmacist who discriminated against me.

I have contacted CVS’ corporate complaint line multiple times, but no one has addressed my concerns or offered me an apology.

Tell CVS: Transgender Customers Need Their Prescriptions, Too

My family supports me, fortunately, and helped me work through the anger and humiliation this experience caused. But many other transgender people are not as fortunate as I am. I don’t want to think about what might happen if this pharmacist mistreats a transgender person who does not have a good social support system.

Today, I filed a complaint with the Arizona State Board of Pharmacy and am publicly asking CVS to take action and apologize for the way I was treated. CVS has received perfect marks for the past four years in the Human Rights Campaign’s Corporate Equality Index, which is a valuable tool for assessing corporate policies and practices pertinent to lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer employees. But something is still not right. Measures should be in place to ensure no other customer is humiliated like I was.

Through training and written policies, the company needs to make it clear to their employees — especially their pharmacists — that transgender customers deserve respect. No healthcare worker should rely on personal beliefs to reject decisions made by doctors and their transgender patients about medically necessary care.

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That was awesome


literally off yourself

Dr. Timothy Leary

Thank you people tor your responses
For you information the expressions: "be a man about it" and "take your medicine" are common expressions that might even be found in the work of William Shakespeare.
Their usage within the context of a response to Ms. Halls article is indeed clever and humorous. How I know this, is that often what one person finds hilariously funny another will
find enormously offense. Your taking offense at my comment proves the humor in it. I apologize for my misspelling the word gripeing, but you must understand that I lack the
sophistication of people who use such expressions as: F--- Y--, A-- H---, F----- B---t, & P---- of S---


While I understand the angst this caused you - you cannot know the reasoning the Pharmacists Rejected the prescription. Did he state that he was prejudice or any reason for refusing to fill the doctors prescription? The other thought - your reply to the refusal should have been I am calling the police. A pharmacist has absolutely no right to withhold a medical doctors prescription - he obstructed your treatment without cause. I will pray you win your law suite.


There IS NO REASON to not fill her prescription. Doesn't matter how the pharmacist feels about anything.


A pharmacist can refuse to fill ANY prescription. Period.


It's not a law enforcement issue. Any cop showing up would have done nothing. Disgusting. I live near gat CVS. First Walgreens here in the W Valley now CVS? Guess there's still Walmart unless they get stupid next.

Jessica, RN

No. Here's why. If the pharmacist suspected a med error he would simply call up the prescribing physician and verify that the patient was undergoing hormone treatment. Furthermore, if they honestly thought it might be in error they would not be loud and demanding in an attempt to humiliate the customer he is supposed to serve. Talking with the patient about what a new prescription does, it's proper dosing, and effects to be aware of is a second point of contact to ensure the customer is indeed intending to change their body. Something that is also done privately and discreetly. There is no ambiguity in the actions of the pharmacist. The licensing board in charge of pharmacist licensing would be keen to hear of this privacy violation too. I know the nursing board would if it was an RN behaving that way!


Actually in some states the pharmacist can refuse to fill the prescription if it is against his morals


Absolutely false.

A pharmacist has no legal duty to fill ANY prescription.
They don't need to give a reason, either.
The police would've laughed at you.

As a pharmacist, I likely would've been concerned that ANY gender person was receiving those doses of hormones.
They can cause deadly clots.

This situation is the DOCTOR'S fault for not providing sufficient documentation to the pharmacy


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