A Woman Called the Police on My Native American Sons While They Were on a College Tour

It’s not easy to accept that two of my sons are now nationally known, not for their sharp humor, musical talent, or academic achievements, but rather for the humiliation they recently endured on a campus tour. Moms are supposed to have all the answers, but it’s hard to explain why they, as Native Americans, were treated at a public university like they “don’t belong.”

So when Starbucks closed 8,000 stores last week to conduct a racial bias training, the news gave me hope, which is something that I’ve struggled with lately. I’m under no illusion that a four-hour session can fix racism. But I hope that more institutions, including colleges and universities, will take important steps to protect people of color from the consequences of white suspicion.  

It’s been a month since the incident, but April 30, 2018, is a day that will live with me forever. I was worried from the start. My two sons, 17 and 19, were adamant about taking the seven-hour drive in our road-worn family car from our home in New Mexico all the way to Colorado State University in Fort Collins, where they were scheduled to attend a campus tour. I didn’t like that they’d be navigating miles of unfamiliar roads and unbearable Denver traffic alone. But they had worked hard to raise the travel money and CSU was their dream school, so I didn’t stand in their way.

They checked in with me every few hours as they went from Taos to Raton to Pueblo and beyond. When they finally reported in a text that they were on the tour, I was relieved: My boys were safe on campus. I would soon discover that I couldn’t have been more wrong.

Not long after receiving the text, I answered a frantic call from my older son. “Ista!” he said, (Ista is Mohawk for mother) “someone called the police on us because we were quiet!” No mother should have to hear what my sons told me over the phone — that campus police pulled them aside because a woman on the tour thought their shy demeanor and t-shirts were suspicious; that they were frightened and embarrassed by the interrogation; that the tour left them behind as they were being questioned; that they went back to the admissions office afterwards for help, only to be flippantly told, “There’s nothing we can do. You can do a self-guided tour if you want.” 

As a Native American woman, I am part of a community that endures racial bias every day, and I resolved that this injustice would not go unnoticed. Several calls and a rant on Facebook later, my sons’ encounter with racial profiling went viral.

Critics wonder why I would blame Colorado State University for the actions of a campus visitor. But I challenge them to imagine being young, hours away from home, and confronted by campus police due to a ludicrous report from a stranger. Body cam footage shows that the tour guide led participants past the detained boys as if they were invisible. If I can’t trust staff at CSU to keep them safe and respect them for one hour, how can I trust them to ensure their safety and success for four years?

Of course, I am upset by the actions of the unnamed 911 caller. But I am also upset that the police officers didn’t address the tour guide to determine if my boys belonged on the tour. Going forward, the CSU administration should draw up guidelines for university employees on how to deal with teenagers or other people on campus who are on the receiving end of 911 calls that could be based on bias.

They should also consider the trauma that can ensue when young people of color are pulled off a campus tour and detained like criminals. After determining that my sons were wrongfully accused, unnecessarily detained, and unfamiliar with the campus, the least that the officers could have done as public servants was help them catch up to their group.

If our story had not received global attention, the 911 caller would have walked away proudly, feeling that she had done the right thing and saved their group from young men who didn’t belong. And CSU may have never started thinking of ways to protect people of color from 911 busybodies.

We are determined to stop dangerous actions like these by “nervous white people.” What happened at CSU could happen anywhere. What happened to my sons has happened to thousands of native people and other people of color for centuries. We feel it is our duty to take a stand and make the country aware that we’ve had enough.

The concept of “see something, say something” is often abused in America to target people who are simply existing in their skin. This bias must be checked. And institutions ranging from Starbucks to CSU can help. I particularly hope that universities — if they truly want to support inclusion — will do the work to keep other young people from experiencing what my boys did when they were 500 miles from home.

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All good point, but she said the caller was white , that is assumption. That is wrong to make.


The caller spoke to her sons, so her boys know she is Caucasian.


The caller WAS white. Not an assumption, a fact!


On behalf of the people from CO, we are very sorry.

Sick of Racism

I'm so sorry for what your sons have had to endure. As a mom with one still in college, when they go off on their own, you worry no matter what. But it would never occur that I or anyone would have to worry about someone calling campus police because of their clothes and being shy. Young people today wear a variety of clothes they like but I wouldn't be caught dead in, they like their own style. My kids were brought up with manners and probably come across as shy when they are in new places and a little nervous. Recently I saw on the news that a white lady had called police on a group of young black people who were picnicking in a park. They were doing Nothing wrong, but she, paranoid of black people I guess called the cops. The cop told her, they were doing nothing wrong. I myself am white, lived my whole life in South TX where there are probably as many Hispanics as whites, with the few exceptions of racial idiots, we all get along great. I'm sorry that you have been treated so poorly. You're people were here long before us and should be treated with respect. I hope your sons find a great college to attend. Texas has some great colleges and we're friendly over here. Best Regards.


Actually, the black family was barbequeing in an area that was off limits for barbequeing. Whether that's a big deal or not depends on the reason why that area was off limits.

Don Essary

I hope you look at Ft Lewis in Durango, CO or Haskell in Lawrence, KS. Either would welcome your sons


I am outraged every time I read about this incident. The ancestors of these young men were here before the Mayflower and yet a white woman"felt uncomfortable". Why wasn't she removed from the tour( for her own comfort and protection of course). Why was she immediately believed? Her most damning comment to police was " I heard one say he was from Mexico" Oh my God, no not really, are they allowed to attend college ? So stupid she didn't understand that New Mexico is one of the continental states?


The publicity that she racially profiled them is not true. Read stories about it, not just what the mother or press say. Listen to the 911 tape.


Apparently she was believed because the young men were too shy to tell that side of the story. That is not healthy and doesn't bode well for their ability to handle life as adults.


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